E-book Category: Parenting
E-book Title: The S.T.O.P & T.H.W.A.R.T Sibling Fighting System
Book Description: Attention : Parents With More Than 1 Child! "I'll Give You A Proven, Step-by-Step System How to Stop Your Children From Bickering, Complaining And Fighting Among Themselves..." You Always Thought You Knew How to Deal With It, But The Fact Is, You DON'T! Just Look At What's Happening At Many Homes Today! Dear Parents,
You must have heard of Bill Cosby. But have you heard this famous parenting quote of his? - You are NOT really a parent until you have a second child.
I mean, that is so true. I couldn't agree any more than that. When I had just one child, I could focus all my attention, energy and love to him.
A few years later when my second child came, I could see for myself how true Bill's quote is.
Of course I was very happy to have a second child. It made the family more lively and Jason now has a sibling to play and interact with.
At least he won't feel so bored! But That Was Also When All The Problems Just Got Started! They would fight and bicker over little things and for reasons that even I can't imagine of! It could be because of toys, the television, food, family outings and sometimes even they way their sibling look at them!
Jason would come to me and complain about John. Minutes later, John came and complained about Jason. And this cycle went on and on throughout their childhood period.
Do you still remember how you felt when you were facing this situation?
I know, it must be tough being a parent in these situations.
Certainly things didn't get any better when my third child came. We wanted a third child because we were hoping for a baby girl this time. For me, all these difficulties were just parts and parcels of a wonderful parenting journey.
At least it gave me something tell my children when they grow up. Later on I found out that one of the main reasons siblings fight with each other is because they wanted their parents' attention. They were jealous of each other. FACT : Children nowadays are becoming very demanding and selfish. They want your time, your attention, your focus, your energy and your love all by themselves. There's no such thing as sharing in their world. Only with this way they will feel loved and secure. That's the reality parents are facing today; whether you accept it or not. It's probably not the same as our childhood period a few decades ago.
I realized that having them fight and bicker among each other wasn't the way forward.
I thought there must be a way I could stop this.
And here's where I will share with you what I've experienced and tested in the past. I'll Show You How You Can Stop Your Children From Fighting With Each Other And Teach Them to Sort Out Their Differences THEMSELVES! Are you sure, Jamie?
Please allow me be blunt because I have to be frank and honest with you.
What I'm going to share with you later in this page will NOT change things overnight. This is NOT some magic pills or solutions where you drink it and things will change when tomorrow comes.
You have to realize that you can't perform miracles and hope that things will change overnight. If you want such things, I suggest you to stop reading this letter right away.
Instead, you will learn how to teach your child to work out their conflicts and rivalries by themselves with your minimum intervention.
You only involve yourself when the issue is getting out of control.
Are you ready?
If you are, then allow me to introduce.... The S.T.O.P & T.H.W.A.R.T Sibling Fighting System How to Stop Your Children From Fighting With Each Other S - SHOW UNDERSTANDING
T - TELL ALL
O - OBJECTIVITY
P - PRO-ACTIVENESS
T - TIME
H - HOW YOU REACT
W - WORK TOGETHER
A - AVOID PUNISHMENT
R - ROLE MODEL
T - TEACH
So, what exactly is the S.T.O.P & T.H.W.A.R.T Siblings Fighting System? What is in the system and how does it work? - This system is divided into 2 parts. I call the first part the S.T.O.P Siblings Fighting System.
After doing a number of extensive researches and through my own experience all these years, I discovered that most of the techniques can be summarized into 4 main ones as mentioned in the S.T.O.P Siblings Fighting System.
Once you've learned the S.T.O.P Siblings Fighting System, you'll be ready to discover the next system. I suggest you to learn one system at any one time as I don't want to overload you with too much information in a short time. - The next one would be the T.H.W.A.R.T Siblings Fighting System.
Both these systems above hold the key for you to unlock the mystery behind why your children fight among themselves.
They can be summarized into 2 parts. - I'll show how you can understand the logic and reasons why children fight among themselves.
And when you already have the fundamental knowledge, you'll use it to learn the techniques how you can stop them from fighting with each other. - Now, you should realize stopping the fight is only a temporary fix. You're looking for a permanent fix, don't you?
Once you're able to get most of the fighting under your control, you need to start teaching them how to sort out their differences, by themselves!
This is what you should aim for!
So what exactly you'll learn in this system? Inside, you'll discover: - The art of peaceful argument. You'll learn how to teach your children to settle their their differences through debate instead of fighting.
- Why you should not punish your children just for the sake of punishing. I'll show you how to choose the right punishments, wisely.
- Not spending enough time with your children? I'll show you how to squeeze out additional time to spend with your children at home even if you're a working parent.
- Why love is made up of 1% emotion and 99% action.
- How you can start showing more interests in your children's everyday life. I'll show you this ONE technique that I've been using all this while and you can apply it immediately!
- Real life examples of negative reactions that you shouldn't show to your children when they're fighting
- How to surprise your children by acting calm in front of them when you're actually not! These 5 techniques are so simple that most of us often overlook this!
- How to be open to your children in all your actions and words. Your children will perceive you as open even if you're not really being open. (BEWARE : There are certain things that parents need to keep away from their child's knowledge!)
- How to create HEALTHY competitions at home for your children. This one technique encourages your children to channel their competitiveness through the right channels, instead of fighting.
- The definition of parental tone.
- One reason why you should consider sending your children away as a consequence of fighting with their siblings
- How to harness the power of stretching and deep breathing to calm your child down (HINT : This works for yourself too!)
- The one and only system you can use to stop your child from fighting with each other. Everything in this system is organized in a simple and systematic way. All you need to do it plug and play!
- A very powerful technique to connect with your child mentally and emotionally. You'll then start to understand their feelings and what they have in mind that leads to their actions.
- PRACTICAL ways to encourage your child to express exactly how they feel. It's absolute important you teach them these skills so that they don't keep things to themselves!
- Why you should not be 100% fair all the time. I know everyone wants to be the best parent of all, but you simply can't because of this simple fact you'll discover!
- Ways to be a PRO-ACTIVE parent. You'll discover the signs and triggers of a looming fight between your children.
- Why your child gets jealous easily Hint : Jealousy is one of the main reasons they fight among themselves!)
- 7 reasons why children fight among themselves at home. (WARNING : Be prepared to find out how much responsibility you had in this!)
- Heard of the phrase 'too many chiefs and not enough Indians'? I'll show you how it relates to your children fighting among themselves!
- Ever wondered why your children looked like they are the best friends at one moment and they start to fight the very next minute? You'll discover exactly what happened behind the scenes.
- Feeling stressful dealing with your children? You can use these simple yet effective techniques I've been using all this years with my children!
- One CONVINCING reason why you should just let your children fight their way out of their disagreements without your intervention (WARNING : You'll only allow this to happen in certain circumstances and NOT all the time!)
- How to NOT keep your child bored. (FACT : Did you know what children fight between themselves out of boredom?)
- Why dwelling over your children fighting is not the way forward. I'll show you how to focus on the positives and start solving the problem!
- What has psychology has got to do with your children fighting with each other? (HINT : Did you know playing mind games is an important skill every parent needs to have?)
- Why jealousy is sometimes a G.O.O.D thing (HINT : It's actually shown that this helps your child's emotional development!)
- The ONE difference between that causes sibling rivalry so different between males and females
- Why being accessible 24/7 is a great outlet for your children to channel their frustration. I'll show you the ways I make myself accessible to my children and you can do exactly the same!
- The meaning of compassion to your children. I'll also show you how to teach them to apply compassion in their daily lives
- Learn how to teach your children to be happy for his/her siblings when something good happens at home. This will help reduce the jealous among siblings which usually causes the fighting!
- S.I.N.C.E.R.I.T.Y -- How to ensure that your children are genuine and truthful while talking to you or their siblings
- How to read your child's body language and anticipate that a fight will start
- Why saying I don't know sometimes is the best answer for your children's questions. (WARNING : Be very careful when using this technique! I don't want your child to have a negative impression of you.)
- How to avoid down talking your child and show them the same level of respect you have for other adults. Children are humans too and they deserve their parents respect as well!
- ...and many many other more!
Oh Wait! Why Are You Doing This, Jamie? One of the main reasons why I put together this system is to make it available to all parents. Everything inside this system has helped my family a lot.
So, I know how much value and knowledge this system has in it and I want you to be part of it and implement it yourself.
And see the results yourself.
I've been through all the hard times dealing with my children fighting at home. I found myself begging for answers and solutions. Sometimes, there were no one I can turn to.
I guess you must know how you felt when you were in this situation.
That's why I want you to get this system now so that you don't have to go through all these hard and painful times like myself. More... | 
